Stop Fucking Killing Us.

And since we all came from a woman
Got our name from a woman and our game from a woman
I wonder why we take from our women
Why we rape our women, do we hate our women?
I think it’s time to kill for our women
Time to heal our women, be real to our women
And if we don’t we’ll have a race of babies
That will hate the ladies that make the babies
And since a man can’t make one
He has no right to tell a woman when and where to create one
So will the real men get up?
I know you’re fed up, ladies, but keep your head up

-Tupac Shakur 


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White Women

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Black Women

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Middle Eastern Women

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Asian Women

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Indian Women

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Transgender Women

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Transsexual Women.

And anybody else I forgot. ALL of us, STOP IT!

I am so sick and tired of turning on the news or getting online and another woman has been killed by a man for turning down his cat call, or by her lover,  boyfriend, or husband because they think they own her.

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The Facts 

  • On average, nearly 20 people per minute are physically abused by an intimate partner in the United States.
  • 1 in 3 women have been victims of [some form of] physical violence by an intimate partner within their lifetime.
  • 1 in 4 women have been victims of severe physical violence by an intimate partner in their lifetime.1
  • 1 in 7 women have been stalked by an intimate partner during their lifetime to the point in which they felt very fearful or believed that they or someone close to them would be harmed or killed.1
  • On a typical day, there are more than 20,000 phone calls placed to domestic violence hotlines nationwide.9
  • The presence of a gun in a domestic violence situation increases the risk of homicide by 500%.10
  • Intimate partner violence accounts for 15% of all violent crime.2
  • Women between the ages of 18-24 are most commonly abused by an intimate partner.2
  • 19% of domestic violence involves a weapon.2
  • Domestic victimization is correlated with a higher rate of depression and suicidal behavior.2
  • Only 34% of people who are injured by intimate partners receive medical care for their injuries.2

RAPE

  • 1 in 5 women and 1 in 71 men in the United States has been raped in their lifetime.1
  • Almost half of female (46.7%) victims of rape in the United States were raped by an acquaintance. Of these, 45.4% of female rape victims were raped by an intimate partner.11

So if you have 5 daughters the probability of one of them being raped or abused is pretty high. Can you guess which one it will be? Maybe you should just pick one, the oldest? the least favorite? Its much easier to prepare your daughters for rape and abuse than it seems to be to teach our sons to respect women and boundaries.

This is the Reality of Being a Woman in America.


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From her womb, neighborhoods are created.

From her womb, communities thrive.

From her womb, communities turn into cities and cities into states.

From her womb, states become nations and nations become great, and those great nations together create a world.

Without the womb, without the woman, there are no neighborhoods, or communities, or cities, or states, or nations.

This world is a woman’s creation.

-Cherise F. Copyright 2017.


I fear for my grandmother, mother, sisters, aunts, nieces, female cousins, female friends, peers, and acquaintances safety every day.

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Because they may get killed by their boyfriend over car keys like Latina Herring.

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Because they could refuse the advances of some strange man grinding on them like Tiarah Poyau. 

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Maybe they’ll be sitting in a car and a heated arguement would lead to them being killed like Jaquarrius Holland.


Or they could die in a murder suicide like Tiffany Greer because if he couldn’t have her nobody could.

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Or your boyfriend can stand over your body while your sleeping and shoot you. This is Scott-Bachicha who murdered his girlfriend Mindy Stuart YESTERDAY 4.17.17!!!!


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Maybe they would be shot and killed in front of their children on the way to school like Rashanda Porter-Franklin.


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Maybe they and their unborn child would be killed by the police when the father of that  baby decided to use your pregnant body and his unborn child as a bullet proof vest like Alteria Woods .


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Maybe they’d have a fate similar to Santos Simiona Gonzalez-Lopez, whose ex-boyfriend walked in her house and told her two people were going to die and shot and killed her before he put the gun up to his own head and pulled the trigger.

He survived.


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Maybe they’d run into an Eric Bermudez type of person who would shoot them several times and drive them around as they’re bleeding out and dying in his car.


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Maybe they’d be found in a parking garage beaten to death like Treashell Spears.


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Maybe they’d be stabbed to death like Ciara McElveen just for being themselves.


Maybe they’ll kill them and their child. Because fuck it why not? Like Heidi Walker and her 4-year-old daughter, Savannah.

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Or maybe it’ll be an accident but the loss is still the same like with Makanzee Oldham.

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Or maybe it’ll be over money over $200 like my sister and her friend.

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So the next time a guy asks for my number and I don’t want to give it to him I should just run?

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For the fear of being killed or attacked?

Start packing so I can shoot them first?

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I mean this is America and its my RIGHT to have a gun.

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Get a restraining order on every ex-boyfriend for the fear he may not be able to move on?

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Fuck it, two can play this game. The next time I’m out and I see a fine guy Im going to walk up to him, grab his dick, and tell him he’s mine.

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Because if you’re wearing those revealing ass sweat pants with your dick print showing you had to have asked for it right?

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To be honest Im tired of working so the next rich man I see Im going to go up to him and demand his sperm because again, why not?

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Gone head and squirt that six figure sperm:

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To the men reading this saying “not me”. Do you speak up when you see it happening? Do you intervene? Do you step in and be a REAL man?

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Because if its not you thats abusing, thats raping, thats killing our women, its your father, your brothers, your nephews, your male cousins, your sons, your friends, and despite what you say it may even be you.

“Almost half of female (46.7%) victims of rape in the United States were raped by an acquaintance.” 

So let that sink in for a minute….

” Its your fathers, your brothers, your nephews, your male cousins, your sons, your friends, and despite what you say it may even be YOU.”


Your mother is a woman, your sister is a woman, your daughter is a woman.

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All of the greatest men came from a woman.

At the beginning and end of every man is a woman.

A woman carried you for 9 months.

A woman fed you and clothed you.

A woman loved you.

A woman bore your kids for you.

A woman took your last name and shed herself to become one for you.

And this is the repayment we get?

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So in conclusion, men be better men.

  • Stop raping us.
  • Stop killing us.
  • Abusing us & while we’re here:
  • Fix the fucking wage gap.
  • Make maternity leave longer or stop getting us pregnant.
  • Stop fucking with Planned Parenthood,
  • Stop fucking with reproductive rights, worry about your balls and we’ll worry about our vaginas!
  • No, means, no.

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  • If I fucked five guys and you fucked five girls If im a hoe or a slut so are you!
  • We can wear what we want!

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I shouldnt have to dance with you, give you my number, or continue to be with you when I dont want to keep my life!

Do better.


To the women reading this:

  • Stay vigilant
  • Always be aware of your surroundings
  • Be cautious at all times
  • Get off your phone but keep it in your hand in case you need to call 911.
  • You return to your car and it has a flat tire. Back away. Return to wherever you came from (restaurant, store, etc) and call for help.
  • Limit your distractions
  • Take a self-defense class
  • When leaving the mall late at night, ask a security guard to walk you to your car.
  • If asked to confirm your address in a public place whisper it to them. Broadcasting your home address among strangers on the line could compromise your safety.
  • Before entering your hotel room, make sure no one is lingering in the hallway.
  • When traveling, do not walk with your map in your hand. It is a dead giveaway that you are a tourist. Therefore, you are an easy target.
  • . If someone tries to grab you, twist your arm up and down and yell, “Stop!” Do anything you can to draw attention to yourself.
  • Always pour your own drink at a party and bring it with you everywhere…even to the bathroom.
  • Do not let your friend go off alone with a guy.
  • If someone is chasing after you, run away in a zig zag pattern. This will exhaust your attacker.
  • Always let someone know where you going and with who.
  • Remove yourself from toxic relationships the safest way possible.
  • TRUST YOUR GUT.

 

& Please be safe……


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Cherise is an entitled millennial whose parents told her from birth she would be great. This drive to be great has caused her to excel academically receiving two degrees at the age of 25 and $85,000 of debt. She still has no (insert cuss word) clue on what to do with her expensive degrees or her life in general. You can typically catch her dodging calls from Sallie Mae, sleeping, or updating this blog. To read more about Cherise and her experiences navigating the scary world of adulting click one of the links on this blog.

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